I was at my step (aerobic) class last week. It wasn't as crowded as it can be sometimes. We enter and position our steps where there is room. This lady turned to ask if she was in my way. I was taken aback by her politeness. There are some who will position their steps wherever and you will have to adjust your step sometimes to accommodate them. I assured her she wasn't in my way, it was not even crowded. She might have been of Japanese heritage, I heard how polite they can be in that country. It was a small gesture that added a lift to my day.
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It's somehow sad that politeness is so rare these days! Everyone just seems to be concerned for themselves usually. Hugs, Valerie
Politeness counts. Not many people care these days.
We have step exercises in our class. They give us a little step and we have to go up and down, up and down, about twenty or so times as part of the exercise. I told the trainer I do that exercise at home going up and down over and again on the first step of our stairs. Mind you, it takes me ages to get to the toilet.
God bless.
Japan is supposed to be very polite. A lot of other Asian countries as well.
Isn't it a wonder that what was once a common and expected reaction has turned to an uncommon, unexpected gesture.
I have the same problem in some of m exercise classes. I
What a difference a little politeness makes!
Politeness was something that seemed to be the norm 30+ years ago, but now not so much. I appreciate the kindness of others wherever it may be, and glad you passed this on. Hugs...RO
How nice. She sounds like a very thoughtful person.
Yes, the Japanese are very polite. However, I’ve found Canadians to be one of the NICEST, most polite people in our travels.
better to ask if there is enough space then get stepped on or pushed, so its good she asked :)
Yes Japanese are very polite , so good!
I too always appreciate when someone uses good manners although as I get older I'm not always as quick to realise I may be blocking someone (supermarket aisle etc ... oh my!!). A quick apology seems to help I've found :D) Have a lovely weekend Christine.
Politeness is rare these days.
How nice that you were able to experience an example of what it feels like 💮
She sounds a very thoughtful person …
All the best Jan
i find chines and Japanese more polite and humble than other nations and it reflects their way of positive thinking which fill one's soul with peace that he delivers to whom he meets in the way
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