Sunday, March 29, 2020

On Control


I really liked this meme which describes very well the things we can control and so should focus on, along with things we cannot control so that we should let go of these things.

A couple of days ago I actually did some garden cleanup for a few hours. The soil was soft and it was easy to pull out these rose campion plants that over the years were spreading everywhere out of control. It was great being outside. The neighbour came out to say hello, and I put my hand out and asked him to stand back. He understood of course. I asked him how his kids were doing, well, he said they were out of school as we all know. A couple walking by said hello from a distance. A little dog came running up after awhile but he didn't touch me. The owners apologized as they hadn't noticed me sitting out front.

We are trying to gauge the best, less busy hours to go walking in our neighbourhood. It may be around 2 pm.

23 comments:

Coastal BC Stories Books said...

I've seen this meme on Facebook. Times like this we want to control so many things that aren't possible. When we are out walking I make a point to say hello to everyone we pass. Maybe it's a need I have to feel to connected when we are so isolated most of the time. - Margy

Valerie-Jael said...

Perhaps the people of the world will learn to be kinder to others, that would be good. Valerie

Elkes Lebensglück said...

you did well and nothing more is possible. You do everything that you are fine and do not have.
Greetings Elke

Crafting Queen said...

Great idea. Glad you were able to get out in your garden for a bit.

Hot guys said...

Hi Christine, that photo you shared is very much on point. Well, we can at least try to be there for each other, that's for sure!

Adam said...

Control is often a rare talent or privilege.

Barb said...

I love this! We have to get through, and distancing ourselves from depression-causing things is very important!

JFM said...

I admit that I have had some rough moments dealing with this new lifestyle that we must follow. But life goes on and I want to go on, too. So "social distancing" here I come.

The Padre said...

Lets All Be The Better Person

Cheers

froebelsternchen said...

This is superb!!!

Rain said...

I think that most people can't accept that they just have no control over the situation itself, but have 100% control over their actions and their reactions. This is a great meme. I'm glad you got out into the garden! Our backyard still has 3 feet of snow but it's raining so hopefully it'll help melt it a little!

Jenn Jilks said...

Yes, I saw this graphic. It really helps put things in perspective. People seem to have lost control, and it bothers them.

Lorraine said...

I like this one. I had shared it too on FB. Makes a lot of sense when a lot of things don't make sense. Enjoy your time connecting with nature.

gigi-hawaii said...

It's nice to converse with neighbors and still keep our distance. I have to remember to keep my distance with my neighbors too.

Pam said...

Mom was not in gardening at all so I have NO flowerbeds to play with. HAHA...although there is a spot in front of the one panel of wooden privacy fence that has a someone bed there. Hosta are growing there, Hosta that I gave her years ago. I did add some buttercup bulbs and tulips this morning to that spot with the Hosta. Now to decide if I even want to have flowerbeds anymore. Lots of work.

Monica Hein ~ Beauty Diary said...

I saw this beofre somewhere :) Hope you doing good!

A Cuban In London said...

Such a good post. I love the image. I hope you and your family are doing well.

Greetings from London.

sandy said...

It's so weird Christine - there is something in me that applauds those who get themselves out and walk - ... I know (through fb) people are getting angry when they see others walk the lake ...I kind of understand when they think people should not come to the mountains...but they also don't like to see a neighbor or friend out enjoying fresh air - it 's like everyone should lock themselves away. All this to say good for you getting your walking in. ...and i think of those who would so love to get out but for health reasons they can't ...and then I just wish for them the freedom to do that.

Wanda said...

What a uplifting post, Christine. The meme is perfect. I really enjoyed how you handled your day with your neighbors. With kindness, but also being safe. Good for you.

baili said...

this is amazingly powerful message Christine
nice of you to spread it among friends

i really admire the effort of who made it

Lowcarb team member said...

Thanks for sharing this Christine.
Although you read about some people who are not following instructions, we are finding that people in our locality are.
Let's face it, we are all in this together, the instructions are to benefit us all.

Take care, stay safe and stay well.

All the best Jan

Anonymous said...

I'm looking forward to getting out into the garden to get some work done. It's been raining lately, so it hasn't been the right weather for it. But we'll get there!

Ananka said...

This is good, I like it. So true :-)