I really liked this meme which describes very well the things we can control and so should focus on, along with things we cannot control so that we should let go of these things.
A couple of days ago I actually did some garden cleanup for a few hours. The soil was soft and it was easy to pull out these rose campion plants that over the years were spreading everywhere out of control. It was great being outside. The neighbour came out to say hello, and I put my hand out and asked him to stand back. He understood of course. I asked him how his kids were doing, well, he said they were out of school as we all know. A couple walking by said hello from a distance. A little dog came running up after awhile but he didn't touch me. The owners apologized as they hadn't noticed me sitting out front.
We are trying to gauge the best, less busy hours to go walking in our neighbourhood. It may be around 2 pm.
I've seen this meme on Facebook. Times like this we want to control so many things that aren't possible. When we are out walking I make a point to say hello to everyone we pass. Maybe it's a need I have to feel to connected when we are so isolated most of the time. - Margy
ReplyDeletePerhaps the people of the world will learn to be kinder to others, that would be good. Valerie
ReplyDeleteyou did well and nothing more is possible. You do everything that you are fine and do not have.
ReplyDeleteGreetings Elke
Great idea. Glad you were able to get out in your garden for a bit.
ReplyDeleteHi Christine, that photo you shared is very much on point. Well, we can at least try to be there for each other, that's for sure!
ReplyDeleteControl is often a rare talent or privilege.
ReplyDeleteI love this! We have to get through, and distancing ourselves from depression-causing things is very important!
ReplyDeleteI admit that I have had some rough moments dealing with this new lifestyle that we must follow. But life goes on and I want to go on, too. So "social distancing" here I come.
ReplyDeleteLets All Be The Better Person
ReplyDeleteCheers
This is superb!!!
ReplyDeleteI think that most people can't accept that they just have no control over the situation itself, but have 100% control over their actions and their reactions. This is a great meme. I'm glad you got out into the garden! Our backyard still has 3 feet of snow but it's raining so hopefully it'll help melt it a little!
ReplyDeleteYes, I saw this graphic. It really helps put things in perspective. People seem to have lost control, and it bothers them.
ReplyDeleteI like this one. I had shared it too on FB. Makes a lot of sense when a lot of things don't make sense. Enjoy your time connecting with nature.
ReplyDeleteIt's nice to converse with neighbors and still keep our distance. I have to remember to keep my distance with my neighbors too.
ReplyDeleteMom was not in gardening at all so I have NO flowerbeds to play with. HAHA...although there is a spot in front of the one panel of wooden privacy fence that has a someone bed there. Hosta are growing there, Hosta that I gave her years ago. I did add some buttercup bulbs and tulips this morning to that spot with the Hosta. Now to decide if I even want to have flowerbeds anymore. Lots of work.
ReplyDeleteI saw this beofre somewhere :) Hope you doing good!
ReplyDeleteSuch a good post. I love the image. I hope you and your family are doing well.
ReplyDeleteGreetings from London.
It's so weird Christine - there is something in me that applauds those who get themselves out and walk - ... I know (through fb) people are getting angry when they see others walk the lake ...I kind of understand when they think people should not come to the mountains...but they also don't like to see a neighbor or friend out enjoying fresh air - it 's like everyone should lock themselves away. All this to say good for you getting your walking in. ...and i think of those who would so love to get out but for health reasons they can't ...and then I just wish for them the freedom to do that.
ReplyDeleteWhat a uplifting post, Christine. The meme is perfect. I really enjoyed how you handled your day with your neighbors. With kindness, but also being safe. Good for you.
ReplyDeletethis is amazingly powerful message Christine
ReplyDeletenice of you to spread it among friends
i really admire the effort of who made it
Thanks for sharing this Christine.
ReplyDeleteAlthough you read about some people who are not following instructions, we are finding that people in our locality are.
Let's face it, we are all in this together, the instructions are to benefit us all.
Take care, stay safe and stay well.
All the best Jan
I'm looking forward to getting out into the garden to get some work done. It's been raining lately, so it hasn't been the right weather for it. But we'll get there!
ReplyDeleteThis is good, I like it. So true :-)
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