Monday, August 25, 2025

Suddenly

 A few weeks ago husband M got a call from a good friend.  He relayed the news that another good friend had suffered a stroke.  They were able to visit him in hospital three days later.  It was a very emotional visit.  The friend had lost his peripheral vision in one eye while the other eye is blurry, it seems the stroke was due to a buildup of plaque in his brain stem.  He still has frontal vision but cannot read and will never be able to drive again.  He was able to go for a bit of a walk that morning. Naturally he was still in shock having collapsed on the golf course only 3 days earlier.

His cholesterol levels were sky high as was his blood sugar so it appears he had not been taking good care of his health.  So he is now on metformin and cholesterol meds and will have to make lifestyle changes.  They cannot operate on his brain stem as it is too risky for him so it will be blood thinners for life.  He is 64 years old.

This is yet another wake up call everyone, health first!

27 comments:

CheerfulMonk said...

Yes! That is so young to be having problems like that.

Elkes Lebensglück said...

Very important at our age. We're currently waiting for a message from his sister, who has been in the hospital since the weekend—for the second time in three weeks. She lives so far away from us that we can't even quickly drive there. She's also 75 years old.
Hugs Elke

Sintra blogue said...

thank you!

jabblog said...

It's so easy to ignore health and indulge in things we know are not good for us. 'Now and then' can so easily become 'often.' I hope your husband's friend makes a good recovery.

roentare said...

Best asset is always health

Angie's Recipes said...

Hope that he recovers soon...

Lucimar da Silva Moreira said...

Sim Christine a saúde sempre em primeiro lugar temos que cuidar constantemente da nossa saúde, Christine boa semana bjs.

Ivy's Closet said...

It is scary. I'm glad he could go to the hospital quickly. Yes, truly a wake up call.

Anonymous said...

so sad to read this

Kathy G said...

I'm hearing about more and more people of my generation with serious health issues. It's scary.

Busy Bee Suz said...

Oh my goodness. I am so very sorry for your friend. Praying he can make some health improvements for the duration of his life. So sad.

Red said...

A life altering health event. I hope he regains some physical ability.

Lisabella Russo said...

Thanks for being so caring!

Martha Jane Orlando said...

Sad news and a wake up call, Christine. I hope the cholesterol meds work. My husband has to take those, too, as do I. Blessings!

Ananka said...

Yes a big wakeup call. 64 isn't really too old these days. I see people in their 80s who are in wonderful health and others in their early 40s who are in terrible health. Still sad to hear though :-(

R’s Rue said...

Sad and scary. Health first.

Lowcarb team member said...

Sorry to read this.
I do hope your husband's friend continues to make a good recovery.

All the best Jan

My name is Erika. said...

That's scary. And it is important to take care of your health for certain because I don't think any of us want to end up like that. Thanks for sharing this important message Christine.

Jenn Jilks said...

And enjoy each day!

Mary Kirkland said...

That's sad and scary. My sister in law was only 41 when she had a stroke and lost a lot of her ability to walk.

J.P. Alexander said...

Ojala tu amigo se mejore. Te mando un beso.

Chrissy T said...

Oh, I am sorry. Yes, I am trying to work harder at making my health a priority since I have genetics that lead to stroke and heart attacks. Prayers of comfort for the friend.

gigi-hawaii said...

I am so sad to read this. A stroke is devastating. It could be fatal. Yes, health first.

baili said...

This is really traumatic story Christine
Health first agreed 👍

The Happy Whisk said...

Very sad.

DeniseinVA said...

I am so sorry about your friend. I have known at least two people who have had strokes. I hope your friend recovers enough with the medication. His sounds very tricky. Wish him the best.

sandy said...

Sad to read this.. Hope is keeps improving..