Saturday, May 16, 2020

Keeping in Touch


It was my niece's birthday this past week so son K dropped this card over to her house with a monetary gift enclosed. I added the '25' with some stickers.  My niece said they stuck it in a closet for a few days due to covid.  Then she would be allowed to open it.  My sister had email money transferred gifts to my kids for their April birthdays recently. She was unable to go shopping as she usually prefers to.

I called my uncle's partner to see how they were both doing. My uncle has been in a long term care home for awhile now with deteriorating Alzheimer's. He was actually my departed 2nd cousin's husband and was lucky to find a devoted partner after my cousin died. So the partner is as fine as can be these days. Of course she is unable to visit the care home at the moment and does worry about my uncle. However a few of the workers there are kind enough to put her on the phone to speak to him regularly. He doesn't say much but I am sure he can hear her voice and it must do him a world of good. Fortunately his care home has weathered the covid crisis so far, we have had a lot of long term care covid deaths in Toronto.

In other news, I have started weeding a bit every day. Last week I was surprised as the neighbour across the street gave me a big hello saying he had not seen me for awhile. He seemed to be in the mood to talk. I am usually the one to strike up a conversation. People need to socialize, isn't it true, regardless of how private or introverted one might be. I asked him how the grocery shopping was going, to which he replied that we had no choice it is still something we have to do. I told him we were thinking of where and how to get lawn fertilizer. He thought that although places like Home Depot are opening up there might be lines. He seemed to be going off to the grocery store himself. It was a brisk, windy kind of day, not a day to stand talking to neighbours really, albeit socially distanced.

20 comments:

Valerie-Jael said...

Lovely card. This pandemic is making us find new solutions for lots of things. Happy weekend, Valerie

DUTA said...

Care homes have been quite in the news lately, and not for good reason. Hopefully, your uncle's condition stays stable with no deterioration of his Altzeimer.

Elkes LebensglΓΌck said...

very nice Birtyday Card!
It is good that your uncle has everything so well and nothing has happened. I can understand the concern. People need entertainment and if there is anything like that!
Take care and stay healthy, hugs Elke

Hot guys said...

That's a stunning B'day card, Christine. πŸ’›πŸ’œπŸ€πŸ€ŽπŸ§‘πŸ’šπŸ’™πŸ–€

Great job, girl! πŸ‘πŸ»

Natalia said...

That is such a pretty card, so cute!

JFM said...

Beautiful card...you always create lovely gifts with your own art.
I do feel sorry for all of us in this pandemic.
Humans are sociable animals and we need to communicate on a personal level.
Have a lovely day and Stay Safe 🌷

Lowcarb team member said...

That is a lovely card.
I think all of us need interaction with others … it will be so wonderful when things do begin to return to 'normal'.

Enjoy your weekend.

All the best Jan

gigi-hawaii said...

Your birthday card is beautiful and I am sure your niece appreciated your gift, too. I always send money to my grandkids, and they always call to thank me.

Wanda said...

Oh Christine...the days got lost, and I see I haven't been here for a few of those lost days. I love the ram below, the horns are marvelous. And yes, we are all missing the social part of our lives. I did go to Target yesterday, with mask and picked up a few things...it was good to see people!!!

Wanda said...

PS Love the cupcake card...just darling. Know she will love it more than any store bought.

Adam said...

Cute card

Evi Erlinda said...

A sweet card!
Glad to hear your uncle get a good care, Christine.

Take care.

Pam said...

Nice and sweet card...

Busy Bee Suz said...

Changing times right now; not being able to visit our loved ones is tough. Thinking of your Uncle; hopefully he can have visitors soon. On my daily walks I seem to wave/say hi more than I used to as well. We do need people.

Chris Lally said...

Beautiful card and much appreciated, I'm sure:) Yes, we are getting reacquainted with neighbors after the winter season though a few have locked themselves in their houses & placed "Stay Away" signs on their doors. Happy to hear the care home was spared - a very big deal!

peppylady (Dora) said...

I also did bit of weeding today

Anonymous said...

That is such a lovely card. I'm so glad to hear that your uncle is safe!

Lorraine said...

Cool card! I'm trying to catch up with weeding too. There haven't been many days the weather has cooperated with that.

sandy said...

that card is so cute! I enjoyed catching up reading about your unclel and his partner and how nice he can talk with her - .. and it's always nice any more in these times to see a neighbor and exchange a few words. We do that when we walk the lake. Every body actually seems friendlier these days.

Ananka said...

Nice card. When I am out shopping or walking I talk a lot! But from a far! Good to talk! :-D