Husband M and I were able to visit an uncle at his new long term care home late last week. It was our first time there. His girlfriend was there as she is every day. The home was beautifully decorated for Christmas. My uncle is in a well-appointed suite with a small kitchenette and a lovely window view. I took a red poinsettia plant and it looked so pretty on his windowsill.
My uncle's dementia is progressing but he was walking quite well, using his walker more as a backup. We were in time for the 3pm social hour so we went downstairs and had a quick walk through the facility before heading to the dining room. His girlfriend said he rarely smiles being more of a quiet, listener type of person. But he was all smiles for us that afternoon. We sat with them for a cup of coffee before it was time to leave.
I thought, isn't this what Christmas is all about?
My uncle's dementia is progressing but he was walking quite well, using his walker more as a backup. We were in time for the 3pm social hour so we went downstairs and had a quick walk through the facility before heading to the dining room. His girlfriend said he rarely smiles being more of a quiet, listener type of person. But he was all smiles for us that afternoon. We sat with them for a cup of coffee before it was time to leave.
I thought, isn't this what Christmas is all about?
8 comments:
Glad your uncle is doing well and that he enjoyed your visit. Hugs, Valerie
I find visiting my father depressing. He wouldn't have wanted his last year's to be wasted away but the person he is now is content. Oh well.
Your uncle is very lucky to be in a lovely place with his loved one's visiting him and where he is cared for, safe and warm.
My husband's aunt is going through the same situation...she is 93.
It sounds as if your uncle is being cared for and loved...this is what is important🎄
This is exactly what Christmas is all about. What a lovely visit.
Blessings
Indeed, I look at everyday as Christmas and try to live in gratitude
he is very lucky to have you three. :)
Oh, what a lovely visit ... and yes, this is what Christmas is all about.
All the best Jan
It sounds like a wonderful visit that was enjoyed by all involved. I'm glad of it.
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