Wednesday, March 11, 2009

An Interesting Evening

L had an anti-bullying day at her school recently. Then later on in one of her classes, a teacher broke down crying. She explained to the class that the session had brought back memories that she herself was bullied every day at school during her childhood. She had been a recent immigrant from Iran. L says she has a very stern, off-putting personality and dresses a bit differently, with shirts tucked into pants worn high on her waist . She's never married.

Last night, M briefly brought home a co-worker visiting from the company's California office. He was a tall, lean Chinese man (about 6 ft 2 ins) in a nice black suit. He had an elegant Australian accent and I'd guess early thirties. So he's an Australian that is now living in the U.S. and in fact recently married an American girl and they're in no hurry to have kids. For some reason we got talking about investments and he said he's fared well in the recession as most of his investments are currently in Australian real estate. He dabbled a bit in mining stocks which at one point were riding quite high and he seemed to have a systematic, timed way of unloading his stocks, never being greedy. (A skill I have yet to learn, I'm a buy and hold forever kind of person). Then I asked him what part of Australia he's from and he said 'Sydney' at which point I interject 'Oh that's not the capital, is it? It's Canberra!' Ok, I'm showing off my newfound intelligence compliments of Lilly. Albeit, I pronounced Canberra with the emphasis on the second syllable and he said it with the emphasis on the first syllable. He said a lot of Australians tend to visit the western part of Canada (British Columbia) for the skiing. All in all, an interesting evening for me.


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8 comments:

Anonymous said...

I was bullied in Jr. High too...by this one girl..finally turned around and punched her! hahaha :) Not a solution, I know, but sometimes, I woman's got to do, what a woman's got to do! =D hee

And WTG on your newly found Australian wisdom! Lilly rocks. :)

TBM said...

That is sad about L's teacher. But maybe it will be a breakthrough for her?

Interesting about your Australian visitor! And that robot article caught my eye.

Christine said...

Paris, that's so great you were able to punch her out, must've been a great feeling. L and her friends were really upset for this teacher.

Japra, I thought the same thing, that it was good for her to let it out, a sort of healing.

The Mind of a Mom said...

I am on the anti-bullying committee at The girl's high school. It is very interesting and sad at the same time. I feel bad for the teacher.

BIBI said...

Interesting indeed! An Chinese man from Australia with an American wife. I love diversity.
So sad to hear about the teacher who broke down and cried. Bullying has such a profound effect on a person years later!
I was the target of bullying in Junior High. I still have nightmares about it, and I am far far away from those people as well!
Have a good one! :)

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Barbara Blundell said...

Poor lady. She must have suffered all her life from all that bullying.

Christine said...

good for you being on that committee, Mom.

Bibi, glad you survived the bullying.

Barbara, it seems from this small forum that bullying is a real problem here.