Sunday, November 21, 2010

The Country Decorating Show


I went to the local Country Decorating Show on Friday. The theme was 'home for the holidays'.
It's good to go early so you can leave by the time it starts to get really crowded. There is always a lineup to get in, as the show has grown considerably over the years. But Santa was there entertaining the customers, as well as a Christmas choir. There was lots of sunshine, but no snow, so it didn't feel all that much like Christmas. I did buy some art as pictured in the photo.
The lady next to me in the morning lineup was talking to a bunch of us in line. I decided it wasn't a good time to take a photo of Santa or to videotape the carollers. She had come with a party from the nearby town of Orillia. She told me they all work in the casino there, in various jobs. In fact, her son is a dealer. She works in one of the restaurants, I think. While the casino provides steady employment to a lot of people, she had stories of all the gambling problems the customers have. There are the high rollers, who will lose hundreds of thousands in one night. Then the people who pawn their jewellery to feed their habit. And of course, the house always wins. Something's not right here.
Anyway, the line moved quickly and I was soon browsing away at all the country collectibles. I sampled some shortbread cookies, some dip and applied some body butter to my dry hands, before I encountered an old friend. We decided to walk through the rest of the show together while we caught up on each other's news. It was as much fun as if we had planned to get together.
We spoke to a few of the vendors and discovered a lot of them are retired folk simply doing what they love part time. One man restored antique furniture, lovely stuff. Another lady owned a stressful flower store business but now does the craft shows. We happened upon a store selling lovely quilts and Christmas collectibles. They also had reasonably priced country furniture made from salvaged wood on display. It seems the furniture maker and his wife hold an open house in their country barn in the fall. This year, they all but sold out, so this was the only show the wife was doing. They spend the winter in Florida as they are also retired. At any rate, I left my friend contemplating the purchase of a new shelving unit. She wasn't completely sold on the 'salvaged' look, which I actually like.

Saturday, November 20, 2010

Because of Love

I received this moving story in a recent email:

A Beautiful Reflection for your perusal....

A brother and sister had made their usual hurried, obligatory pre-Christmas visit to the little farm where dwelt their elderly parents with their small herd of horses. The farm was where they had grown up and had been named Lone Pine Farm because of the huge pine, which topped the hill behind the farm. Through the years the tree had become a talisman to the old man and his wife, and a landmark in the countryside. The young siblings had fond memories of their childhood here, but the city hustle and bustle added more excitement to their lives, and called them away to a different life. The old folks no longer showed their horses, for the years had taken their toll, and getting out to the barn on those frosty mornings was getting harder, but it gave them a reason to get up in the mornings and a reason to live. They sold a few foals each year, and the horses were their reason for joy in the morning and contentment at day's end. Angry, as they prepared to leave, the young couple confronted the old folks "Why do you not at least dispose of 'The Old One'. She is no longer of use to you. It's been years since you've had foals from her. You should cut corners and save so you can have more for yourselves. How can this old worn out horse bring you anything but expense and work? Why do you keep her anyway?" The old man looked down at his worn boots, holes in the toes, scuffed at the barn floor and replied, " Yes, I could use a pair of new boots". His arm slid defensively about the Old One's neck as he drew her near with gentle caressing he rubbed her softly behind her ears. He replied softly, "We keep her because of love. Nothing else, just love." Baffled and irritated, the young folks wished the old man and his wife a Merry Christmas and headed back toward the city as darkness stole through the valley. The old couple shook their heads in sorrow that it had not been a happy visit. A tear fell upon their cheeks. How is it that these young folks do not understand the peace of the love that filled their hearts? So it was, that because of the unhappy leave-taking, no one noticed the insulation smoldering on the frayed wires in the old barn. None saw the first spark fall. None but the "Old One". In a matter of minutes, the whole barn was ablaze and the hungry flames were licking at the loft full of hay. With a cry of horror and despair, the old man shouted to his wife to call for help as he raced to the barn to save their beloved horses. But the flames were roaring now, and the blazing heat drove him back. He sank sobbing to the ground, helpless before the fire's fury. His wife back from calling for help cradled him in her arms, clinging to each other, they wept at their loss. By the time the fire department arrived, only smoking, glowing ruins were left, and the old man and his wife, exhausted from their grief, huddled together before the barn. They were speechless as they rose from the cold snow covered ground. They nodded thanks to the firemen as there was nothing anyone could do now. The old man turned to his wife, resting her white head upon his shoulders as his shaking old hands clumsily dried her tears with a frayed red bandana. Brokenly he whispered, "We have lost much, but God has spared our home on this eve of Christmas. Let us gather strength and climb the hill to the old pine where we have sought comfort in times of despair. We will look down upon our home and give thanks to God that it has been spared and pray for our beloved most precious gifts that have been taken from us. And so, he took her by the hand and slowly helped her up the snowy hill as he brushed aside his own tears with the back of his old and withered hand. The journey up the hill was hard for their old bodies in the steep snow. As they stepped over the little knoll at the crest of the hill, they paused to rest, looking up to the top of the hill the old couple gasped and fell to their knees in amazement at the incredible beauty before them. Seemingly, every glorious, brilliant star in the heavens was caught up in the glittering, snow-frosted branches of their beloved pine, and it was aglow with heavenly candles. And poised on its top most bough, a crystal crescent moon glistened like spun glass. Never had a mere mortal created a Christmas tree such as this. They were breathless as the old man held his wife tighter in his arms. Suddenly, the old man gave a cry of wonder and incredible joy. Amazed and mystified, he took his wife by the hand and pulled her forward. There, beneath the tree, in resplendent glory, a mist hovering over and glowing in the darkness was their Christmas gift. Shadows glistening in the night light. Bedded down about the "Old one" close to the trunk of the tree, was the entire herd, safe. At the first hint of smoke, she had pushed the door ajar with her muzzle and had led the horses through it. Slowly and with great dignity, never looking back, she had led them up the hill, stepping cautiously through the snow. The foals were frightened and dashed about. The skittish yearlings looked back at the crackling, hungry flames, and tucked their tails under them as they licked their lips and hopped like rabbits. The mares that were in foal with a new years crop of babies, pressed uneasily against the "Old One" as she moved calmly up the hill and to safety beneath the pine. And now she lay among them and gazed at the faces of the old man and his wife. Those she loved she had not disappointed. Her body was brittle with years, tired from the climb, but the golden eyes were filled with devotion as she offered her gift-- Because of love. Only Because of love. Tears flowed as the old couple shouted their praise and joy... And again the peace of love filled their hearts.

Friday, November 19, 2010

World-wide Dining Etiquette Test

I got this in an email and it's quite entertaining and informative:

Click on "Dining Out In The World" below, then select your answer by clicking on the twirling utensil.It will give you the correct answer, then move to the next country.

Dining out in the world

Thursday, November 18, 2010

Pumking Ale

It was windy and rainy yesterday. But apparently it was snowing in Calgary out west. So unless you're a skier, rain's better for now. There was a nice photo of Prince William and his new fiancee Kate on the front pages of the newspaper, it made me smile. It's nice to have good news for a change.


Our regular fitness instructor is on vacation, so we had this other instructor, who also has a great sense of humour. She'll say things like 'kick back with your heels, you should have bruises on your bottom if you're doing this right!'


I met some friends for lunch after my exercise. One is visiting from Florida. We ate at a Mediterranean restaurant. I had falafel (chick pea patties) in a pita which came with a delicious lentil soup. Everyone else had Greek salads with their soups. Oh, I think one of the ladies had a tabouleh salad.





I found another neat gift idea or hostess gift called Pumking Ale, as per the following article:

Pumpkin pie, bottled

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

My Eye Exam

I had my annual eye exam at the opthalmologist a few days ago.

While I was in the waiting room, a toddler came in with his dad and grandmother. (Probably the grandmother had an appointment). The dad dragged a toy close and attempted to get the child interested in it without success. I thought it strange. Then later on, I noticed the toddler reading this leaflet with concentration. His dad was reading his own paper in much the same way.

I noticed the waiting room was not as crowded. The doctor's assistant told me she developed a new system where she will call in 2 patients at a time. One will sit in a room nearby while the other is being assessed. Then the doctor will see them in that order. The time saving results from not having to wait for each patient to walk from the waiting area to the assessment room one by one. Ingenious, and they are moving patients faster, resulting in a less crowded waiting room.

I've had a small cataract in my right eye for a number of years, so the doctor checks to make sure it hasn't grown to a point where I'll need to have surgery. It's been stable. I used to have a recurring eye inflammation in that eye toward the end of my working years. When I quit my job, the problem disappeared. It must have been the stress. I've been seeing this doctor for about 13 years now. He has a lot of older patients who think he's wonderful and I certainly think he's a good doctor for the few minutes I spend with him once a year. This time, I couldn't help but notice his hair is thinning and he's coloured it. He must be middle-aged now.

While waiting my turn, I flipped through a current issue of People magazine. Singer Ricki Martin was featured with a photo of his new surrogate twins. He talks about 'coming out' and how difficult it was being a gay Latin man. There was another story on Ellen DeGeneres' wife and her struggle with an eating disorder.

I ran into my family doctor in the parking lot as I was leaving. He's in the same building. He actually saw me because my eyes were still dilated from the eye drops.

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

The Visit

On the weekend, we drove up to see L at her university. It was so good to see her, we gave her lots of hugs. We took some utility shelves and a small coat rack that fit the space perfectly. Now she's all organized. She has settled in well and has made lots of good friends. In fact, it's home now. It seems 2 of her roommates share her shoe size, so the sisterhood has 3 times the shoes to choose from! L had bought K a jogging suit with the university logo and he loved it. She said her friends think M is the greatest dad who puts awesome care packages together. It seems they had all gathered around to see what came out of the huge box last week.

We did a grocery run and had a nice meal together afterwards. Before you know it, darkness fell and it was time to for M, K and I to head home. I felt a bit sad, but life goes on and my mind got busy thinking of the upcoming week's activities. I can always message her on my blackberry and she gets right back to me. K was fine being the centre of attention again.

Monday, November 15, 2010

Xmas Tea - What I'm Wearing

Well, Mr. Toast's 2nd Annual Xmas tea is coming up December 5th and I spent some time deciding what I was going to wear. I hate waiting until the last minute as it adds to the stress of travel. I understand it will be held in Scotland somewhere. Please let me know what you think of my outfit, and accessories! So far I don't have a date yet, I can't get up the nerve to twitter Adam Lambert. But it was so much fun choosing my dress and accessories.

I'll be wearing my faux fur coat. The dress is a Vera Wang taffeta cocktail dress, and my jewellery is all tanzanite gems. I was looking at designer clutch purses such as Jimmy Choo and Prada, but settled on what I liked that would match the silver of my shoes. I was going to wear strappy sandals but felt my toes would be warmer in these.

I just noticed Mr. Toast will be serving lots of hot cocoa and mulled wine, so be sure to stop by on the day of the party!