Tuesday, July 31, 2018

A nice lunch



Here we are at the end of another month, wow. We took an old friend to lunch last week. It was at an all you can eat Chinese buffet restaurant in the area. I couldn't resist taking the photo above, the ornament was decorating the washroom. They have some beautiful pieces at various places in the restaurant. Maybe the next time I can take this carved wooden flowers piece which I thought was lovely.

My friend had treated us to a lovely lunch at Christmastime. Her husband is suffering from heart failure. As we bid them goodbye and left, we had no idea that he had fallen outside of the restaurant and had to be taken to hospital. She was her usual cheerful self, despite having made arrangements to put her husband into a home as soon as an opening becomes available. It is just too hard for her to continue looking after him.

Anyway, I was happy to be able to take her to lunch last week.

27 comments:

  1. Glad you enjoyed the restaurant with your friends, but sorry to hear of the accident afterwards. It's very hard caring for people who are in need of long term care. Hugs, Valerie

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  2. What a lovely ornament. So sorry to hear about your friend's husband.

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  3. How very sad for your friend with her husband so ill. Your meal with her must have been a good boost for her emotionally.

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    1. I think it was good for her to have time to herself.

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  4. Sad about your friend's husband. Glad you enjoyed your lunch.

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  5. Praying for you and your friends.

    God bless.

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  6. Prayers for your friend, and having to make a tough decision. I guess it happens to most of us at one time or another.

    Glad you had good lunch though.

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  7. Hi Christine, I am so sorry to hear about your friend. We have had family and friends in the same situation. It is heartbreaking because you just want to carry on but come to the realization that help is needed. As we get older I hear this going on more and more. We take no day for granted as none of us know what is around the corner. I'm sending my love and very best wishes to your friend. I hope she gets some peace of mind soon.

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    1. And obviously my thoughts are with her husband too.

      Thank you for the lovely photo from the restaurant. I am always taking photos of the décor when we go to one.

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  8. It was nice of you to take your friend out to have a meal with you. That's a nice Chinese dress on display.

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  9. Those Chinese dresses are always so beautiful

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  10. Blessings.....
    T'is indeed lovely.
    have a great day.

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  11. I am so sorry to hear about your friend's husband, but I am happy that you were able to get together to have a wonderful time in the restaurant. That piece in the photo is lovely.

    -Soma

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  12. Sounds like a lovely time with friends. But I'm so sorry to hear about your friend's husband.

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  13. So sorry to hear about the accident.

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  14. I'm so sorry about your friend's husband. I'm glad you had a nice lunch together and your baby sandals piece is adorable!

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  15. I hate hearing this happen to anyone. I bet your friend is so happy to have you there, Christine.

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  16. What a nice find in a restroom. So sorry for your friend.

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  17. Such in an interesting post with two contrasting stories. The way you told them was great. :-)

    Greetings from London.

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  18. Aging can certainly be challenging. Wishing your friend all the best.

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  19. You are a wonderful friend, Christine. These falls and accidents seem to happen more as we age.. as I can fully attest.

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  20. oh i felt sorry for your friend and her husband ,may she get more strength to face such tough times of her life1

    i LOVED the show piece you captured in washroom of restaurant ,it is just a beauty!

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  21. Sorry to read about your friend's husband... but pleased that you enjoyed your lunch.

    All the best Jan

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  22. I think it important to move him when the time comes. Caregivers suffer such health issues trying to cope. hugs

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