Tuesday, September 13, 2016
The Boulder
I went with my sister and her husband yesterday to see a long term care home for my mom. It was a beautiful facility but unfortunately the homes in our area are now a 4 to 5 year wait. It is different for the private care homes I think, but they are very expensive. The government care centre will start sending a worker to help with bathing my mom for an hour, a couple of times per week, and hopefully that will help somewhat with her ongoing care. They have recommended updates to her bathroom, such as a shower chair, grab bars, etc.
I arranged with my mom's pharmacy to start creating 4 week pill packs for her. They did a good job with the first batch picked up yesterday. She takes 14 pills in the morning (including 3 supplements) and 7 pills at night. It is a government service and there is no charge.
It is a worry looking after parents. My mum is only just still independent. Last year she was very sick and dependant on neighbours and family. Gallstones I think it turned out to be.
ReplyDeleteHope you get things sorted for your Mom, must be a difficult situation for you all just now. Hope all goes well, Hugs, Valerie
ReplyDeleteI'm confident that you'll work hard to find the best care for your mom.
ReplyDeleteIt isn't easy, I know, Christine...we went through this same situation with my husband's father who passed away three years ago at 98.
ReplyDeleteWe are now back into the same situation with his 92 year old aunt.
My best to you and my prayers that all works well for you and your Mom~
That's a lot to take everyday
ReplyDeleteIf I get to the point where I can't take care of myself, I might opt for a full time caregiver, who is paid a monthly stipend plus free room and board.
ReplyDeletewow ...both my parents and my husband are long ago passed on. I hope i remain healthy until the day i leave.
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful photograph. I'm sorry you haven't found the right place for her yet, I hope you find it soon. I'm glad that you and your sister are getting some help.
ReplyDeleteSounds tough, Christine. I hope everything works out well for your mom.
ReplyDeleteYou are making Americans jealous with your health care coverage. I'm so sorry about your mom though. It's so hard to age easily. 14 pills in the morning? Wow!
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