Saturday, October 24, 2020

Venue booked and a haircut

A fresh fall flower arrangement

I snapped this photo at a wedding venue we were checking out with daughter L and her fiance.  Yes they did book at another venue for Aug 2022!  Believe it or not, these dates are going fast.

Last week I finally decided to get a haircut, my first since Covid started.  The salon was empty and it was done quickly by a senior lady named Rose.  She had an interesting life story.  She came to Canada on a refugee boat from Vietnam in 1978.  The Cambodian-Vietnamese war was just starting according to Google.  She said at the time, the refugees were offered a choice of 3 countries that would take them in.  Canada was the first choice, the US was the second, and I forget what the 3rd choice was.  So she chose to come to Canada.  She said all the males were taken to jail but some of those relatives were eventually after some years able to buy themselves freedom to the US.  It explains why she has relatives in California now.

As a single mother of 3 boys, Rose said she had to find a good job to support them so she got a telecommunications job monitoring satellites I think she said.  Now that the boys are grown and married she works part time as a hairdresser at the salon.  She had taken a haircutting course to learn a skill for her retirement career.  I was happy with my haircut, I may see her again.   

25 comments:

  1. What an amazing lady! She’s certainly had a hard life. Funny you should write about haircuts. I just had to give my mom a haircut yesterday. I see a lot of people around with longer hair. And I also see ladies letting their hair return to their natural color.

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  2. Rose sounds like an an amazing person, glad you got a good haircut from her. pretty flowers, too! Hugs, Valerie

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  3. I taught several kids who fled Vietnam.
    I had my haircut last month. It was pretty good.

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  4. What a wake-up call her story is.
    We who are born here in the USA take it for granted 🇺🇸

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  5. She sounds like an amazing lady!

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  6. So glad you got to know her and you had a great haircut too. I have to say my last one was awful and I may wait a good long while before the next one. Love the flowers. I'm excited for you! A wedding takes a lot out you..just planning.

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  7. What a great Saturday post. So interesting about Rose. All the best to your creativity!

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  8. Love the flowers. My late husband started his career as the manager of a very private club and they would book the weddings a year in advance on the first of each month. There would lierally be people outsidei n lawn chairs over night. Haven't gotten a hair cut yet, but supposed get a pedi today.

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  9. ...my hair is getting mighty long!

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  10. great that you were at the hairdresser's and the rose is a great woman.
    This is a wonderful bouquet of flowers.
    Greeting Elke

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  11. That's a long time to get married. But understandable because of the pandemic. Good luck with that. As for the refugee, well, good ending to her story.

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  12. Glad you got a good haircut and what a fascinating woman. Congrats on the wedding venue.

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  13. First off wow a wedding in 2022 - smart to put it off until then not knowing what covid will be doing... Really enjoyed the story - it was like one of my favorite blogs - reading the story you wrote "Humans of New york" I love that site. Must have been interesting talking to Rose.

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  14. I like interesting stories from folk like that. Glad you were happy with the hair cut. I tend to not enjoy getting mine done, not had great experiences :-(

    2022 seems so far away!

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  15. beautiful image...
    congratulation of wedding venue....good luck.

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  16. It been a while since I had hair cut. I am on fence about having it done.

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  17. What an interesting story she has!

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  18. My daughter-in-law's parents fled from Laos at the end of the Vietnam war.

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  19. That's good you were able to get the wedding venue booked.
    Pleased you were happy with your hair cut.

    All the best Jan

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  20. pretty flowers :)

    wow she sounds wonderful and insightful woman dear Christine
    she went through odds wisely and bravely indeed
    thank you for sharing the story
    blessings!

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  21. What an amazing story she has; so nice of you to share it with us.
    Congrats on the wedding venue!!

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